The period after may be the most challenging for most, is unknown waters. No matter who you are and how much has been prepared in life, his unrequited love can be devastating and an experience that feels very heavy and confused.
While I work with women seeking their way during this time, there are defined patterns of behavior that are common. the errors are a part required of the growth!
FOCUS your energy on all the locations wrong
after a finish, which can be easier to focus on all the things that made “A” and to convince yourself of what is a complete idiot your ex was and is.
You can find yourself obsessed with what happened and trying to find out why it happened. You can start thinking about who or what your Ex is doing at the moment and feel like crap because he is not doing it with you.
Here’s the thing… choose to deal with end in one of these ways is a big mistake. Actually you can’t heal yourself and move from obsessing over you with someone else, or you can do it to distract you from the pain.
The only way to move to the other side is to cross it and finish really is an incredible opportunity to focus on TI. To give a little extra TLC, you learn a lot about who you are and what you really want.
Take a honest look at what needed work, and “rise in level” in his life so he can continue to grow and expand in the woman who has the potential to be.
The more time you spend to concentrate on you after your separation, best prepared you are for the kind of love that you actually want in your heart. Faster truly live your life with joy!
GATHER a squad of cheers in place of a MENTOR
after finishing, can be as easy to bring together all the wrong people to your around. You know what I’m talking… these people would like to feed your fire and throw their own opinions about you.
These are the people that will tell you what idiot is your Ex, you should stick to it and get the revenge that you deserve and be sure to make a big deal about each juicy gossip that can hear about your Ex.
STUCK IN TELLING HER STORY OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
This is one of my favourite mistakes to speak because all LO do! Even I can’t tell you how guilty I went from this. Literally would speak with somebody to listen to me and not with someone who does not.
Each and every one of my five hundred friends, the stranger in the box, and my therapist knew every detail of everything that was happening. When I look back, I often wonder if I spoke of something else more relevant to the case.